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From Paris to Philadelphia: A Day of French Culture in the City of Brotherly Love

by TheSpot September 17, 2024
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Rodin Museum

Despite the fact that the Olympics are over, who can forget some of the memorable moments?
The most decorated Olympian in American history, Simone Biles; Lady Gaga in a Parisian Betty Boop costume; and, most of all, the legendary return of Celine Dion in a performance that will live for the ages. There aren’t many sites that can compare to Paris’s twinkling lights but maybe some might bring back memories. https://olympics.com/en/paris-2024 Memories such as warm croissants, a romantic stroll in the park, or world-class artwork . As a self-confessed fan of Emily in Paris https://www.netflix.com/title/81037371, I was eager to explore the Paris and Philly connection. I spent a day in the City of Brotherly Love for a day of French culture.

We want to revisit certain inspirations to give you that “mangez bien, risez souvent, aimez beaucoup” sensation if we can’t be in Paris to experience the joie de vivre. Put another way, enjoy good food, lots of laughter, and lots of love while in Philadelphia. A location that holds a particular significance is the Rodin Museum. I made the decision to go on a short trip and spend the day in French fashion.

My first stop before that was the Sofi Corner Cafe. A light-filled, spacious French Moroccan cafe with large open windows contributed to the feeling of a Mediterranean retreat. There are art deco posters, bright yellow walls and cushions, and a small patio to enjoy a laissez-faire afternoon for that extra St. Tropez flair. The menu during the early afternoon included a chicken b’stilla and a mocha coffee. I got the impression from the front window’s ample assortment of French candies and sweets that you might not find them elsewhere in the world.

A picture-perfect backdrop supplied by the Rodin Museum on Benjamin Franklin Parkway lends a gateway its’ spectacular indoor beauty. There is a large, open courtyard with a few little tables and seats beyond the gate known as The Garden. Particularly on a day with lovely weather, it is worthwhile to relax, sit, read a book, or spread out a picnic blanket. One of the benefits of visiting the museum is that you can pay what you want or a suggested amount. Moreover, entry to the Rodin is complimentary with the purchase of a Philadelphia Museum of Art ticket.  Every chamber is lined with magnificent sculptures that capture texture and detail, such as versions of The Thinker, The Kiss, and Two Hands, among many more.

I didn’t have the intention of flying out to indulge in croissants and macarons, but I did found a tiny spot with the ideal ambiance. The spacious and open J’aime French Bakery located on 12th Street in Center City features wide open windows. It was there that I relished a café au lait and a chocolate croissant. It was the ideal way to recharge after a day of touring, discovering Rodin, and being motivated to attempt new things.

While I was seated observing others, I spotted visitors, individuals working on the side of the road, and corporate professionals rushing around, reflecting on my own experiences of relaxing in cafes across foreign cities. All with similar atmospheres and ambiance. My own city transformed my perspective. I let myself immerse in the buzz, the mood, and the tranquility. I behaved as though I was in Paris. I envisioned the cars revolving around the Benjamin Franklin Parkway, gazing at The Thinker, witnessing beautiful kids on picnic mats, and savoring each moment of sipping coffee in a cafe.  Emily in Paris finds her Parisienne adventure and I was happy savoring the mine. https://rodinmuseum.org

September 17, 2024
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Woman Owned Business Spotlight. Meet Megan Negron-Dalton: An Entrepreneur Who Is Challenging the Status Quo in the Audio Space

by TheSpot August 14, 2024
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Entrepreneur

Welcome to the first of our series: Woman Owned Business Spotlight. At first sight, Megan Negron-Dalton appears full of youthful energy and can easily be perceived as a college student. However, it’s quite surprising to think that she is not only an audio engineer and business owner but also competes in a dynamic industry. We explore Megan’s professional background, and it turns out to be quite an impressive list of achievements. After our initial encounter with Megan, it’s clear that she is not only a successful entrepreneur but also a trailblazer in the field of innovative audio engineering, setting new benchmarks for industry norms. Her expertise spans all types of audio required for various media. While this is a wide-ranging term, Megan narrows it down to her focus on commercial mixing. This includes work on video sound, podcasting, and creating music. Megan’s team consists of both audio engineers and musicians. She mentions that podcasting is rapidly growing in the audio industry and she enjoys the process. Megan observes that podcasters are increasingly taking control of their platforms through advertising, and she and her team help in promoting their clients’ businesses. Furthermore, they handle press releases for new music releases.

As our discussion deepened, we were intrigued by Megan’s journey into the realm of audio engineering. We noted that it’s not a domain typically favored by young women. Megan shared that her musical journey began early, sparking a keen interest in the intricate aspects of audio engineering. She began her career through internships and engaged in conversations with other audio engineers to learn more about the industry. Megan and her boyfriend and partner, Michael D’Angelo, decided to venture into entrepreneurship, launching their own company. She cleverly chose the name Multi Media Audio, recognizing the shift towards a content-driven society and their readiness to tackle audio projects across various media platforms. As a woman, entrepreneur, musician, and audio engineer, we set out to discover more on how she is challenging the status quo.

Megan doesn’t focus much on the gender balance, but she recognizes that sometimes, when projects come up, she might not be selected first because people are often unfamiliar with seeing women’s skills in the audio industry firsthand. Nonetheless, Megan fully embraces her abilities, which she thinks are what ultimately earn her clients’ trust. Megan feels confident in her ability to connect with clients through her genuine care and honesty. She constantly hones her skills by reading, studying, and exploring new techniques. She’s prepared to tackle any question a client might have, ready to provide a thorough answer. She jokingly admits that occasionally, clients might be pleasantly surprised by her knowledge and expertise.  

Furthermore, Megan recognizes a clear move away from the “hustle culture.” She points out that being kind plays a significant role in fostering positive interactions with her clients to reach a common goal. She also notices that the business environment is moving in the same direction, with signs indicating a decrease in pace. As a musician, Megan possesses empathy and insight into the potential obstacles clients might face, and she thinks kindness is a powerful tool in building strong connections in the workplace.

How does Megan stay driven when faced with the temptation to quit or simply not feel like it? Deep down, Megan is certain that this is her true calling. She’s deeply passionate about her career and also finds solace in her music. She plays various instruments and has been reviving old compositions she wrote years ago. Megan also appreciates the importance of balance. She knows that if she needs a break to recharge, she can step away from a project and return to it later. Her musical talent and dedication have led her to submit her song “Bruised Peach” to a contest for Rolling Stone Magazine’s America’s Next Top Hit Maker. This contest is unique because it supports Music Cares, an organization that helps millions of musicians with health and welfare support. This cause is very close to Megan’s heart as a musician. If she wins, she’ll receive the top cash prize. Megan intends to use the money to further her business and create the studio of her dreams and further expand assisting other creatives in the audio space.

Megan is living her ideal life, even without winning any competitions. She frequently attends local workshops and networking gatherings to continuously expand her knowledge and build relationships. Megan is among the numerous emerging business leaders who are breaking traditional barriers. Her journey serves as a motivation that it’s possible to remain true to yourself while putting in the effort. She’s developing her skills as a sound engineer and pursues her love for producing exquisite music. We’re eagerly awaiting more outstanding projects from Multi Media Audio. To follow her journey, learn more here https://www.multimedia-audio.com/home

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August 14, 2024
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BRICK BY BRICK: THE MAGIC OF THE ART OF THE BRICK EXHIBIT

by TheSpot July 28, 2024
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Lego

Certain toys hold a special place in defining childhood experiences. From our first trucks and dolls to our first board games, these toys create lasting impressions that we often pass down to our children as adults. During holidays or family nights, classic games like Monopoly often make an appearance, teaching us valuable lessons in money management and property acquisition. Lego® is a prime example of such a product, fostering creativity and problem-solving skills as we build buildings, houses, and cars, pushing the limits of our imagination by connecting multiple strips and creating towering structures. The Art of the Brick Exhibit, currently on display at The Franklin Institute of Philadelphia is a magical foray into imagination.

The current exhibit of The Art of the Brick challenges us to expand our imaginations beyond conventional limits. Nathan Sawaya, the artist behind the exhibition, transitioned from being a full-time attorney to pursuing his passion for art using Lego® pieces as a means of relaxation and creative expression.

In his introduction video, Sawaya emphasizes the notion that art has no boundaries and can be created from anything, one brick at a time. The Art of the Brick, brings to life iconic works of art in brick form, offering a unique perspective on the creations of artists like Andy Warhol, Frank Lloyd Wright, and Michelangelo, while also featuring a Lego® sculpture of Benjamin Franklin.

The exhibit not only showcases spectacular creations but also inspires creativity and collaboration, providing designated areas for children to design their own Lego® artwork and engaging adults with recognizable masterpieces like American Gothic and the statue of David. There is no better way to spend time while the kids are out of school than by stimulating their imagination and laying the foundation for their future. Engaging in activities that encourage creativity and critical thinking can have a lasting impact on their development.

Visitors are encouraged to think outside the box and explore the boundless potential of Lego® art, as The Art of the Brick demonstrates that creativity has no limits, making it a worthwhile experience for fun, admiration, and endless possibilities. Visit https://fi.edu/en/exhibits-and-experiences/art-of-the-brick for more information.

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Lego® version of The Liberty Bell at The Franklin Institute
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The Art of the Brick Exhibit at The Franklin Institute of Philadelphia
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The Art of the Brick Exhibit at The Franklin Institute of Philadelphia

July 28, 2024
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Beyond the Beach: A Unique Side to the Jersey Shore

by TheSpot June 21, 2024
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Pau Hana Tiki Boat Ocean City, NJ Jersey Shore

Brian and Jennifer Toner, a married couple, epitomize the essence of weekend beach vibes as a way of life. As certified captains, the Toners have established a business that brings the island atmosphere to the Jersey Shore. Pau Hana Tiki Boat Tour has been operating for several years, offering a unique perspective of the Jersey Shore beyond its beaches.

It feels like just yesterday when my friends and I were shopping, packing our bags, and loading our cars in excitement for sun, sand, and summer adventures. Countless weekends were spent barefoot at beach bars, enjoying happy hours without a care, and strolling home in the early hours of the morning. Nowadays, it warms my heart to hear young people making plans or reminiscing about crashing on friends’ couches after a beach weekend. As adults, many of us have transitioned into parenthood or spend our time preparing for the work week instead of indulging in jello shots. However, growing older and wiser is a natural progression but it doesn’t mean that we can’t have fun anymore. It just means a little more thought and planning is required.

Pau Hana, pronounced pow-hahna, is a Hawaiian term that translates to “finished work.” With over 25 years of experience exploring beach bar concepts across the U.S. and outer islands, the Toner family has a wealth of knowledge in this area. I was curious to experience a tiki boat adventure firsthand, although my visit coincided with a rainy day devoid of sunshine. Meeting Brian at the harbor, we engaged in conversation outside on the dock while awaiting the arrival of the boat. Uncertain of what to expect, I tried to envision a fusion of a tiki bar and a boat. If we can send a man to the moon, surely we can transport a tiki bar out to sea. Lost in thought, the tiki boat finally arrived. The boats embark on a two-hour journey around Ocean City and Somers Point, returning to the dock to welcome the next group of passengers. From the appearance of the fun loving passengers boarding the boat, it was evident that this was going to be an exciting experience.

Sunset Cruise at the Jersey Shore

The couple established their business in Ocean City in 2021. In February, after a story about them was featured on 6ABC, they sold 500 tickets, indicating an early sign of success. Since then, Pau Hana has been gaining popularity for various occasions. It’s not surprising that they have a high rate of returning customers, as one patron has already booked her 12th trip. Pau Hana offers a range of bookings, including Girls Day Out or Girls Night Out, bachelor and bachelorette parties, memorials, celebrations of life, birthdays, anniversaries, and more. Pau Hana offers several tour options from early bird calm tours to mid-day lunch to sunset cruises.  If you’re a night owl and a disco party is more your speed, well there is a choice for that too. While Pau Hana is family-friendly and allows children, most of their trips are attended by adults. The couple and their son work together in this family business, making it a true family affair. During winters, the Toner family dedicates their time to travel and research for the upcoming summer.

Here’s a fun fact: many of their guests are boat owners. When inquired about it, Brian thinks that the majority of them just desire to relish their stay and have a pleasant experience. The tiki boat tour allows guests to bring their own beverages, but Pau Hana also provides cups and other necessary items. It’s a fantastic way to experience a unique side of the Jersey Shore, with sun, fun, and a floating bar. After the excursion, the party often continues at a restaurant called The Point. For a little shopping before or after your excursion, visit the Boutiki.  You’ll find apparel, gifts, memorabilia, and so much more to round out your tiki boat experience.

There’s always time to enjoy the beach, have fun with friends, and indulge in no shower happy hours. Just remember to relax, appreciate the sunset views, and let someone else handle the boating. For reservations and more information, please visit their website. https://pauhanatikiboat.com/touroptions/

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June 21, 2024
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Andalusia, PA: A Garden Paradise Waiting to Be Uncovered

by TheSpot June 3, 2024
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The Big House Andalusia, PA

Discover a hidden garden paradise just a short 20-minute drive from Philadelphia at Andalusia Gardens in Bensalem Township. This 225-acre estate, once home to the prestigious Biddle family, offers a serene retreat reminiscent of a charming chateau in the South of France or an English cottage from a storybook village. Upon arrival, the tranquil ambiance envelops you as you stroll along the river, passing by rose bushes and grottos. Reservations are required to visit, with parking conveniently located in front of the mansion, also known as The Big House. When booking online, you have the option to explore the gardens and tour the historic home separately, both well worth the reasonable fee.

The Greek Revival architecture of The Big House holds a rich legacy tied to the Biddle family, known for their affiliation with Bailey, Banks, and Biddle, a renowned Philadelphia jewelry store. The estate’s history dates back to John Craig’s purchase in 1795 during the yellow fever outbreak, later passing down through his daughter Jane upon marrying Nicholas Biddle in 1814. The property expanded over the years, now offering a public glimpse into the opulent lifestyle of the Biddles, who entertained notable figures in banking, law, and politics. The well-preserved home stands as a testament to their legacy, ranking high among historic homes for its furnishings and intriguing stories.

While Philadelphia boasts a rich historical background, Andalusia’s real allure lies in its award-winning garden and arboretum. Letitia Glenn Biddle’s contributions in the late 1800s, including tulips and larkspur, transformed the garden into a botanical masterpiece. Notably, Letitia founded the first Garden Club of America, setting the stage for Andalusia to receive numerous accolades. A visit is essential to fully grasp the beauty and charm of this enchanting estate. Why not enjoy a lovely picnic amidst the picturesque surroundings? The property provides benches and chairs, offering an ideal setting for a family outing or a romantic rendezvous. Photography enthusiasts, both amateur and professional, are invited to capture the timeless beauty of Andalusia. Additionally, the estate offers a magical backdrop for weddings, creating everlasting memories in a truly exceptional setting. Escape to Andalusia Gardens for a day of wonder and beauty, without venturing far from Philadelphia’s bustling streets. You can view guidelines here: https://andalusiapa.org/guidelines/

 

Andalusa Historic House, Gardens, and Aboretum
Andalusa Historic House, Gardens, and Aboretum
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Family Room of The Big House in Andalusia, Pennsylvania
June 3, 2024
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Spread Love with Homemade Treats: A Home Baker’s Inspirational Story

by TheSpot May 15, 2024
written by TheSpot
Care Package Bakes Treats

It was a bright crisp day when I headed towards a charming Main Line neighborhood for a meeting. Upon reaching the delightful Philadelphia suburb residence, I hoped it was the correct address. Elisa Ludwig, the proprietor of Care Package Bakes, warmly invited me inside. The vibrant decor immediately caught my attention as we exchanged a few words before making our way to the kitchen. I was immediately in awe as the kitchen exuded openness, brightness, and warmth- a baker’s dream for creating memorable care packages. A sense of peace washed over me instantly. Elisa’s creations were meticulously displayed, colorful, visually appealing, and beautifully packaged. I was delighted to meet Elisa, having been impressed by her Instagram page. Elisa is a home baker specializing in crafting “care packages” filled with homemade treats.

Like many women, she transformed her passion into a thriving business. Elisa’s love for baking began in her youth, influenced by her mother who worked as a caterer and cafe owner. She gained valuable culinary knowledge and basic skills, as well as understanding the importance of presentation. Elisa attributes her ability to prioritize visual appeal in food to her early experiences. She commenced her career as a food writer for various publications in Philadelphia, where she also tested recipes and refined her culinary expertise. Elisa stresses the significance of these testing experiences in her journey.

Elisa Ludwig, Home Baker

During the pandemic, Elisa, like many other parents, had to put her own products on hold in order to prioritize her son’s schoolwork. In addition, Elisa and her husband had to give up their love for entertaining at home., as that part of their lives came to a halt. However, amidst the isolation, Elisa found moments of inspiration that led her back to her first love, baking, as a means of reconnecting with others. She believed that baking could serve as a conduit to reunite with her friends. Interestingly, Elisa humorously refers to herself as the “neighborhood baking lady.” What started as an idea quickly gained momentum. We discussed how life was before and after the pandemic, and starting her own business became a way for Elisa to establish connections with people. She takes pleasure in creating her baked goods for various individuals.

Elisa emphasizes the significance of quality in her product. She produces her goods in small quantities and dedicates time to carefully select specific and high-quality ingredients. According to her, her treats are not merely meant for mindless consumption, but rather to provide an exceptional experience. Her objective is to evoke emotions and foster the sharing of special occasions. Elisa’s range of offerings includes raspberry and chocolate chip strawberry cookies, coconut cakes with marshmallow frosting, and a seasonal assortment that is constantly changing. Elisa expresses that her business serves as her creative outlet and brings her immense satisfaction. So, where does Elisa find inspiration for her creations? She draws inspiration from her mother’s recipes and enjoys experimenting with different combinations. For Elisa, the joy lies in the process of creating and personalizing her treats.

We were given the chance to bring home our very own assortment of treats, and we can confidently say that each treat offered a delightful explosion of distinct flavors and textures. Every bite is meant to be relished, as no two treats are alike. If you’re looking to give a gift or commemorate a special person or occasion in a truly exceptional way, Care Package Bakes is the shop you should reach out to. We advise against waiting too long, as the news is spreading! They were recently honored as the Best of Philly Home Bakery in 2022 and were also featured on Fox 29 Good Philadelphia. You can watch the video showcasing their creations here. https://www.fox29.com/video/1430637. Elisa crafts treat boxes, boards, and favors that can be shipped anywhere in the U.S., or you can opt for their pick-up and delivery service. Further details can be found here. https://carepackagebakes.com/

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May 15, 2024
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Experience the Small Town Charm of Lititz, PA

by TheSpot April 17, 2024
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Lititz, PA 1700s architecture

As a lifelong Philly resident, there are certain towns that I had simply never heard of.  Admittedly, there probably wouldn’t be much of an incentive to explore my surroundings beyond my familiar scope.  That’s why when a friend mentioned Lititz, PA, it wasn’t a destination on my radar.  The discussion sprang from the proximity to Hershey, PA and my friend suggested it was a town worth checking out.  Aside from the name not being particularly easy to remember, I backlogged it for quite some time.  Until that is, we decided to do a little road trip to the Fire and Ice Festival being held in the center of town.  It was a good reason to get out of my comfort zone.  

Lititz, part of Lancaster County, is charming and mythical.  Before we headed down the turnpike, we made a short list of spots to visit.  Fortunately, many of the dining and boutique shops can be found right on Main street.  We plugged in the GPS and we were on our way.  We made good timing with just a little over an hour ride and luckily found parking in front of the Lititz Springs Inn and Bulls Head Public House.  A pub with an inn attached, our first order of business was to sit down for refreshing pint craft beers and lunch of hearty pub fare.  As it turns out, it happened to be voted one of the best beer bars in America by USA Today and Best Beer Bar in Pennsylvania by the Great American Beer Competition. 

After a leisurely lunch, we noticed instantly that Main Street was bustling with activities and families enjoying a Sunday afternoon.  Strollers, families, and even young friend groups seemed to walk along window shopping.  Many in the crowd sporting Philadelphia Eagles apparel.  Several antique shops caught our eye.  One was more charming than the next.  Lancaster, well known for high quality furniture and decor, we stopped in to see what treasures we could find.  Cast iron stoves, woven carpets, and antique irons were just a few items that can be found at fairly reasonable prices.  You can spend an entire day alone just antiquing in Lancaster County of which I had made a mental note.  As we walked along a little further, a shop with a large pretzel display featured prominently.  If you didn’t know anything else, you knew you had to sample a fresh warm pretzel from Lancaster County.  I had discovered after my visit that the  Julius Sturgis Pretzel Bakery had a pretty interesting history.    

Founded in 1861 by Julius Sturgis, it is considered the oldest pretzel bakery in America.  Moveover, it is the oldest family operated pretzel  bakery in America.  Judging by the line just to sample these delicious warm pretzels was a testament to their legacy.  If you love a good old fashioned warm pretzel from harking back to the days of the “pretzel guy” from childhood,  you haven’t experienced a pretzel until you have a Sturgis pretzel.  We took a few minutes to indulge in its’ warm, buttery, and light texture.  Just to sample a Sturgis pretzel was worth the ride alone.  The store held a variety of pretzel snacks including chocolate covered pretzels with their other famed confection of Lancaster, Wilbur Chocolate. A match made in heaven.  

Wilbur Chocolate Retail Store happened to be closed on the day of our visit but you couldn’t go too far without Wilbur Chocolates featured in many of the boutiques and shops.  Its claim to fame is the Wilbur bud, a chocolate process where chocolate resembles the bud of a flower.  The factory, founded in 1864,  boasts the original recipe and continues to be a beloved tradition of Lititz as well as manufactured in Central Pennsylvania.  Wilbur Chocolate had one famous celebrity brand that drew much attention to Wilbur Chocolates and Lititz, PA.  Muhammed Ali, made a visit to the chocolate plant in 1978 to promote the candy branded in his namesake, “The Muhammad Ali Crisp Crunch Candy Bar.”  It is said that he drew over a thousand people to the town.  Today you can also pay a visit to the Wilbur Lititz Hotel, now a Hilton Hotel.  It was originally converted from the original chocolate factory and the Wilbur Chocolate Museum stands next door.  

While you’re walking around town, feel free to slow down and observe your surroundings.  Many of the buildings have original structures and exteriors from the 1700s.  The town is representative of its history and influence of Native Americans and Europeans of that era.  There are currently 57 listings of the National Register of Historic Places in Lancaster County.   Another fun fact:  the oldest girls boarding school can also be found in Lititz, PA.  Linden Hall for Girls was founded in 1746 and has been in continuous operation here  in the United States.  The Moravian Church Square is another historical example founded in 1749.  According to the Church’s website, the Lititz Moravian Congregation began in 1749 and the church was built on a 491 acre farm in 1787.  The grounds offer a stunning view and within a walkable distance from shops and restaurants. Whether you’re planning a family day trip, a shopping excursion, or simply explore Lancaster County, Lititz has much to offer.  

I had to stretch beyond my comfort zone but I was glad to discover a quaint new town off the beaten track.  Lititz has all the old and new world charm to spend a perfect recreational weekend with friends and family.  It’s a short drive away whether by car or horse buggy but nevertheless, you’ll be glad you did.  

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April 17, 2024
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The Art of Botantical Beauty: Meet Alexa Fornicola of Botanically Blurred

by TheSpot April 8, 2024
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Caring for plants or planting gardens can be a daunting experience for busy women. Admittedly, when we first discovered Alexa Fornicola, Founder of Botanically Blurred, it was the first time we encountered a “plant stylist.”  As a matter of fact, when we had Googled the term, there was no one we found other than Alexa.  We’re actually glad.  Alexa is a unique individual who has managed to create a unique place in the world.  I don’t believe there is one definition that encompasses a role, livelihood, and purpose.  Yet, Alexa has managed to combine all of those traits and found a way to help people.  In many ways, her company name fits in very well with our theme that life does not have to be shades of black and white.  Women in particular are blurring the lines of self identity and awareness.  It was refreshing to hear Alexa tell her story about forming her own identity in her life’s work and purpose.  She dives in on her inspiration and the art of botanical beauty.  

Alexa is coming into her second year of Botanically Blurred and has gained more confidence than the previous year.  As we discussed imposter syndrome, Alexa brings up an interesting point.  She has made it a point not to define herself by the things she is doing but how she feels on a day to day basis.  She goes on to explain that the term successful has a different meaning to everyone.  She defines success by what she accomplishes on a daily basis. Fornicola does acknowledge that there are challenges for women in creating an identity or fitting into a space. 

Alexa’s segway to plant curating and maintenance, was not a traditional route.  As a matter of fact, considering her previous career and her current career choice could be deemed a tale of clashing worlds.  At 21 years of age, she was hired for sales at a beer distributorship.  To say she had to overcome challenges in a male dominated industry is an understatement.  Alexa describes her time in sales as demanding and stressful.  Moveover, she spent a large amount of time on the road and often found herself in a challenging male dominated environment.  Although her work life was spent in her car and traveling, she often was surrounded by plants when she returned home.  Mainly acquiring  low maintenance plants or succulents, Alexa tells us that the extent of her knowledge of caring for plants consisted of being easy to take care of and not much else.  Consequently, her plants never would survive. 

During covid-19, her company had shut down and Alexa’s employers redefined her position. After a certain point, the stress began to affect her physical and mental health.  She began to feel her work was not adding meaningful value to anyone’s life.  All of this led to Alexa drawing the conclusion that reaching an hierarchy in a company or the corporate world no longer drove her.  It no longer aligned with her sense of value or purpose. All the while, Alexa was coming home and tending to her plants.  Alexa’s curiosity led her to read and learn more about plant care. It was during this period where she experienced a shift in her outlook.  

Alexa believes herself to be spiritual and sought alignment with her passion. She faced a difficult decision which took her well over a year to make but nevertheless decided to leave her job.   Shortly after, she began working at a plant nursery.  It was during this time, Alexa experienced a renewed feeling of  joy and invigoration.  She knew in her heart that she absolutely made the right decision.  Fornicola goes on to say that her goal is to make others feel the same sense of joy.   As for herself, the plants in her own apartment became plentiful. Her own best friend made an inadvertent compliment by telling her a plant in her apartment looked fake to her amusement. Alexa acknowledges that she is aesthetic centric and was looking for ways to add more plants while caring for her current ones. It became a natural step to take on more clients and eventually move her plants to a bigger space. 

Alexa choosing the right plants

We were curious and asked the question if humans do in fact have an emotional connection to plants and nature; similar to a pet or member of the family.  Alexa emphatically affirms this notion.  She explains the scientific term, called biophilia, is defined by a desire to connect with nature.   We experience this “love” for example when walking on grass barefoot, touching a plant, smelling flowers etc.  Surprisingly, there is an actual device called The Plantwave Device that attaches to the plant and provides biofeedback into sonic data.  In essence, the plants emit electronic signals that translate into sound.  A remarkable discovery that demonstrates there’s more than meets the eye.  She goes further to explain that studies show that microbial networks are complex interconnected relationships that assist each other in ecosystems and plant health.  Alexa also admits that she has a constant need for progress.  She is constantly amazed at how nature finds a way to push forward through cracks or leaves rooting itself.  Alexa’s motto is if you keep going I’ll keep going.

Botanically Blurred now works with clients in interior plant design and maintenance. Alexa’s job is to choose the right plants to fit her clients personality and lifestyle. Additionally, she developed a mental fortitude towards her business.  Her goal is to not to compromise aesthetics but rather find solutions to have it all.  Her style is wanting her clients to “miss” the plants when they’re not there. So, what exactly is the process of how Alexa works with a client?  She assesses her clients’ needs, lifestyle, and their space.  For example, If a plant requires higher level care, Alexa will ask a lot of questions to determine what works.  Does the client have pets?  She will make sure the plants she chooses are non toxic.  Alexa allows the client to determine how involved they want to be.  They will either turn over the decision entirely over to Alexa or the client is welcome to add as much input as they would like.  Understanding the client is key.  Alexa even gets down to the granular level by asking questions relating to thermostat settings (which helps her assess how much watering a plant will need).  

Plant interior design

Her advice in looking for inspiration or getting started in designing your space with plants?  One way is to walk around a home and garden outlet, choose a plant that speaks to you, find out the name and research all the details.  Her tip:  start small.  Do not overcomplicate.  Fornicola feels it’s important to self reflect about how involved you want to be in the actual care and go from there.  Of course, you can always have a professional outlet like Botanically Blurred who will guide you in the right direction to a better living environment.  Botanically Blurred  services New York, New Jersey and Pennsylvania.  For information on her services or to book an appointment, learn more here https://www.botanicallyblurred.com/

April 8, 2024
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UNVEILING THE BLUE MEANIE:  BRIAN HEFFRON’S INCREDIBLE RISE FROM SOUTH PHILLY TO THE WORLD OF THE WWE 

by TheSpot April 3, 2024
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You just may see Brian Heffron, a.k.a The Blue Meanie, at his local favorite bar McCusker’s Tavern.  Brian and his girlfriend Tracy are often together either taking in a game or chatting with other patrons.  Unimposing, Brian is soft spoken and pleasant.  McCusker’s, located in the St. Monica Parish section of South Philly, has been a long time favorite spot in the neighborhood.  It is the type of place that exudes comfort and home.  It’s only natural that Brian does not veer from his favorite place.  In many ways, his rise all started in St. Monica Parish and South Philly, where he was born. 

Although he was born in Philly, at the age of two, Heffron’s family wound up moving to New Jersey.  Brian spent his childhood primarily in Gloucester City and Atlantic City.  He states today that even at a young age he felt a connection to South Philly knowing that’s where he was born.  

Most artists that have a love of music, team, or movie and can name the exact moment of their calling.  That moment came in the form of Brian’s eight year old self when his friend next door wanted to watch wrestling instead of the Phillies.  Brian tells us he was enthralled especially by the larger than life aspect.  However, there was one match that Heffron attributes to getting “bitten by the bug.” That match was between Rick Martel and Tony Garea against Mr. Fuji and Mr. Saito.  He credits that match as the one that really stayed with him.

If Brian was entertaining any thoughts of one day becoming a wrestler himself, he had some serious health challenges to overcome.  Heffron had severe asthma growing up and often was in the hospital during spring and fall seasons. Brian recounts that he was hooked up to breathing machines for a couple of weeks at a time therefore consigned his love of wrestling as a spectator.  In hindsight, it is easy to see now how his journey led to wrestling.  As he explained, he often felt he didn’t quite fit in.  He was not able to participate in everyday outside activities therefore spent a large amount of time in his room. 

During the early 1980s, his grandfather took him to wrestling matches at the Boardwalk Hall in Atlantic City.  The Boardwalk Hall was a popular venue for wrestling and especially the main events.  Brian vividly recalls the first match he attended.  The match consisted of  Mr. Fuji and Mr. Saito, Black Jack Mulligan against the Strongbow brothers and Andre the Giant.  Brian brings up the memory with a smile on his face but on a more personal note, the main event holds a special place in his heart as he notes it was a pivotal moment in his life.  Andre the Giant came to be his all time favorite wrestler.  Brian acknowledges that he really identified with Andre the Giant in terms of feeling different from the other kids.  Also, Heffron was often picked on for being asthmatic, living in a single parent household, and gaining weight as a child.  

Depression also played a role due to his ongoing health issues.  Eventually Heffron was fortunate that his parents found a specialist who was able to properly diagnose Brian’s asthma.  Finding his asthma was triggered due to multiple allergies, they were able to find a treatment that has helped Heffron tremendously.  Eventually, Brian’s lungs became stronger and was able to participate in activities that he wasn’t able to in his high school years.  As a result, Brian tells us he was able to experience a new lease on life. 

Heffron’s pro wrestling career began in Lima, Ohio shortly after high school.  About a year or so on the circuit,  Stevie Richards and Raven of ECW (Extreme Championship Wrestling) began to take note of the young Heffron.  As he recalls the story, Raven took Brian to his house in Cherry Hill, NJ  and presented the idea of taking on the character The Blue Meanie based on the Blue Meanies in the movie Yellow Submarine.  At that point in time, Brian was only concerned with joining the ECW.  Raven convinced Brian to dye his hair blue and his alter ego was born.  It was a full circle moment, as Brian tells us he often attended ECW shows as a fan.  Brian credits the ECW on what he describes as the Haley’s Comet of wrestling.  The ECW brought a toughness to the sport which he describes as wrestling’s “Broad Street Bullies.”   His outlook is that the ECW changed professional wrestling forever.  Brian names Todd Gordon as being the one responsible for many careers of pro wrestlers we are familiar with today.

After three years with ECW, it was a phone call in 1998 that would really change Brian’s career and the trajectory of his life.   Brian recalled that  had worked with Norm Connors in Pittsburgh.  After that show,  Brian returned to Philly and was told to expect a call from Bruce Prichard, Executive Director of WWE.  After speaking to Prichard, Brian who was then living with his grandmother and mother on 13th and Shunk Streets, advised his family to put all the bills under Brian’s name.  Needless to say, that was the moment he knew he had hit it big.  With a touch of emotion, Brian recalls that he was able to provide a comfortable life for his grandmother for the next couple of years of her life.  He expressed gratitude that he was able to give back to his family for all of the sacrifices they had made for him.   The feeling was a huge moment for himself, his family, and his hometown. 

We wanted to know directly from The Blue Meanie, what is the significance of Wrestlemania 40 in Philadelphia?  What is the enormity of this event?  Brian does not give a watered down explanation.  He simply states that it’s long overdue.  Brian cites the early days of how Philadelphia was a huge market for wrestling and that matches were televised in the city.  He emphasizes that Philly was always a pro wrestling town. As a matter of fact, Vince McMahon would come to the Spectrum to get a first hand look of the product. To paint a picture, Brian describes Wrestlemania as the Super Bowl of wrestling.   After all, this is the ultimate goal of any professional wrestler .  Any city that hosts Wrestlemania benefits economically as well as other promotions and companies.  The Hall of Fame, Friday Night Smackdown, and Monday Night Raw will be huge draws.  People are hailing from all over the world to attend all of these events.  In addition, Wrestlemania is huge culturally for the city so it only makes sense that Wrestlemania returns “home.”  Heffron himself will be hosting his own Wrestlemania event, Meanie Mania.  If you’re expecting some large venue in downtown Philly, think again.  Heffron will be in his favorite place, McCusker’s Tavern.  

Naturally we wanted to know the importance of female wrestlers and interest in the sport overall.  Brian affirms that this is the best time for women in wrestling.  His take is that it was always perceived to be a male dominated profession however the last decade is changing that perception. All female events, pay per views, and big names are drawing in big numbers .  Brian recognizes that female wrestlers have always been great for the sport and entertaining.  He goes as far as saying, the growth of females in the WWE is nothing less than a revolution.  Heffron names women like Becky Lynch and Charlotte Flair as big time draws and Rhea Ripley is one of the biggest names regardless of gender.

With Meanie’s rise from humble beginnings to the WWE, how does the  future look for The Blue Meanie?  He continues to give back and wishes to entertain further with his podcast Mind of the Meanie and lately appearing in various documentaries.  His goal is to bring smiles and laughter to his audience and fans of the sport.  According to The Blue Meanie, as long as that’s the case, he’s done his job. You can find the Mind of the Meanie podcast where ever you get your podcasts.

April 3, 2024
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CELEBRATING BLACK HISTORY MONTH IN PHILADELPHIA: A CITY OF FIRSTS

by TheSpot February 25, 2024
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Philadelphia is a city of firsts.  The first hospital, the first lending library, the first African Methodist Episcopal Church, the first art museum, the first women’s medical college and if you can believe it, much more.  As we celebrate Black History Month, we journey into discovery, history, and impact of many of our celebrated figures.  As we continue learning  stories through art, writings, and music, we discover the lasting impact of diverse cultures throughout our city and beyond.  

Mother Bethel African Methodist Episcopal (A.M.E) Church is one of the more significant and noted congregations in the country.  The existence of the church leads to its founder, Richard Allen.  Allen was formerly enslaved by a Philadelphia attorney, and eventually sold to a farmer in Delaware.  Richard was influenced by traveling Methodists to preach the word and at the age of 20, bought his freedom.  For several years, Allen supported himself with labor jobs.  After purchasing a parcel of land on 6th and Lombard Streets, the ground was dedicated on July 29th, 1794.  It is the oldest African Methodist Episcopal congregation in the nation. The church’s archives are a treasure trove of historical documents, books, and visitor logs. Mother Bethel A.M.E Church still stands and remains active today.  Richard and his wife Sarah are buried on site.

MARIAN ANDERSON

Marian Anderson, born in Philadelphia in 1897, rose to the greatest heights in the opera world because of her gifted voice.  In 1925, she entered a contest along with 300 other contestants.  She won first prize and performed with the New York City Philharmonic Orchestra. She went on to highly successful tours throughout Europe during the 1930s.  She performed in front of world leaders, kings, queens, and diplomats.  Despite her great success, some doors were closed to Marian due to her race.  In one instance, she attempted to rent a concert facility in Washington, D.C however was denied.  Drawing widespread protest including Eleanor Roosevelt, Marian ultimately performed at Lincoln Memorial in January 1955.  She drew over 75,000 people and was given a standing ovation.  In the coming years, Ms. Anderson was a recipient of numerous awards,medals, and honorary degrees.  A few include the Presidential of Freedom and Grammy Lifetime Achievement Awards.  Today, the home purchased by Marian in 1924 at 762 South Martin Street, was deemed a historical landmark.  The home operates as The Marian Anderson Residence Museum.

The Sound of Philadelphia was not only a musical era but a movement.  Kenny Gamble and Leon Huff, have solidified their place in music history as songwriters and producers.  Furthermore, their black owned label, Philadelphia International Records spurned hit after hit throughout the 1970s and beyond.  Artists such as the O’Jays, Teddy Pendergrass, and Patti LaBelle reverberated from Broad Street to around the world.  Songs like “Message in our Music” and “Wake Up Everybody” embodied musical expressions of community and activism with danceable beats.  In addition to a thriving music scene, Gamble and Huff thrived as successful businessmen not only owning the label, but owning the publishing rights and masters. 

Today, TSOP or Philly Soul, has influenced recording acts around the world.  Current performers such as Justin Timberlake and Boyz II Men have directly cited the Philly Sound as being a major influence to their music.  The actual recording studio no longer exists however all one has to do is walk along the Philadelphia Music Alliance Walk of Fame along Broad and Walnut Streets to view our treasured artists and their impact.  

Lawnside, NJ has the denomination of becoming the first independent self-governing African American municipality in the northern U.S.  Peter Mott was a minister and self made man who offered their home as a stop for the Underground Railroad. As a prosperous property owner, his land oftentimes provided a safe haven to enslaved escapees.  Today, his home stands as a museum.  Historical documents show the importance of the site and town as many in the community worked together as freedom fighters or to do their part in assisting those to freedom. 

To really experience the rich tapestry of our culture here in the Greater Philadelphia region, visiting and walking tours really put us in the space of time of our African American brothers and sisters. It is the buildings, art, and music that tell stories that we are not always able to see or hear at face value.  We continue to journey to discovery with rich and authentic narratives.  

MOTHER BETHEL A.M.E CHURCH

February 25, 2024
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